Blog...

Maintaining a blog is definitely challenging. You have to constantly think about what you want to write about. You definitely want to make it interesting so that people would go back to your site and read what you have to say or ramble about.

Recently, I regularly read Shannon's blog. Shanny's blog is good because it's very honest. (Although she had to make changes for some important reason.)
Two friends also recently created a blog. I'm not sure on whether they would want me to mention the names and link to their blog. And I would not mention it to prevent any issues. (They know what I mean if they read this).

Another blog that I regularly read is my bro's blog, Manny. He's busy with work but I loved his blog. Especially when he writes the poems. He'll make a good writer, I think.

Well, I'll mention Papa's blog. (That's what we'll call him now until I find out if it's ok for him to mention his name.) I liked Papa's blog. His blog is very interesting and descriptive. I especially liked his blog when he talks about his kids. Having children is a big responsibility. We have a puppy now and it takes a lot of work. But having kids is a higher level.

Another blog I liked is Kenji's blog. (It's not his real name but that's what we'll call him for now). Kenji likes to travel. I'm encouraging him to post his photos of his travels. As I read his blog, I think some people who know him may find it offensive. Why? Well, he's really writing about what he really thinks about the people he writes about. No holds barred as you may say. Especially about a SuperHero that he talks about. (He likes comics so I'll just make that reference.)Hhhmmm.... I don't think he's being malicious or wants to offend people. I guess sometimes the truth hurts.

Well, speaking of real feelings. My blog is pretty plain. I think that I'm afraid to write my true feelings, emotions and perspective on things. Maybe I'm afraid of criticism.

A Brand New Year .... 2004

It is almost the end of January. 2003 has been a good year. The hubby and I got married last May after being together for six years. We also got Spenser ( the lab) last August. The year went by really fast. Now that I'm married, my perspective has changed. I definitely would like to be more responsible and prepare for the future if we are going to have children in the future.

Looking back, I definitely was not as responsible when I was single and before I was with the hubby. You never really think about important things until you meet someone you truly love and care about. When you're with someone, you think that you love and care for that person. It's all a matter of perspective then you find out it's really a false love .... caring for someone for the wrong reasons. (Am I talking about someone I knew?)

Well, that was the past. Now, we have to work on my New Year's resolutions which is the following:
1. Lose Weight - This would be challenging and a lot of work.
2. Pay debts - I would probably be forever in debt. My ultimate goal is to be debt free and pay everything in cash.
Unless I wind the lotto.
3. Attend School - We need to save money for this so I can finally attend culinary school.

Well, that's it for now.

At this moment, what is your favorite...

1. ...song?
I don't really have a favorite song at the moment but I'm leaning towards the new song/remake of the song from Talk Talk by No Doubt. The video was pretty good, I actually just saw it at MTV Jams over the weekend.

2. ...food?
Korean BBQ... yum yum! We've been going to Korean BBQ for about once a month. It's really delicious.

3. ...tv show? American Idol and Law & Order.

4. ...scent? I don't know about scent. But my current perfume is "Bulgari". I might switch either to Tiffany or Ralph Blue soon.

5. ...quote? None at the moment.

You are Beast!

You are brilliant and extremely clever. You can
handle almost any problem swiftly and
efficiently. You are devoted to philosophy and
are always up for a good discussion.
Sometimes, though, your anger gets the best of
you and you upset those whom you care about.


Which X-Men character are you most like?
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You're a Jaw Breaker!!!! You tend to be quite
upfront about everything. Some admire you for
this quality, while others often resent you for
it. Although you may act tough, whether you
hate to admit it or not there is some sweetness
inside of you.


Which kind of candy are you?
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cuddle and a kiss on the forehead - you like to be
close to your special someone and feel warm,
comfortable, and needed


What Sign of Affection Are You?
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Your an Umbrella. Umbrellas a kind, caring people,
that watch over others. Everyone respects you
and views you as a good example. Your friendly,
non-judgemental, maybe sometmies even to nice.
Umbrellas are amazing people.


What random object are you? Many detailed outcomes - find out about your personality!
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Yeah!!! Good job you know as much, or almost as
much as me about Lotr! I'm glad you took my
quiz and I'm really glad you seem to like Lotr,
please rate my quiz! but if it was bad or
anything was inacurate please message me ^_^


Xox The Best Movie Quiz on Lord of the Rings xoX
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What one thing are you most looking forward to . . .

1. ...today? The weekend. The weekend are the two most precious days to me. I get to stay up all night on Friday doing whatever I want and not worry about waking up early. I get to spend time with my hubby and my lab. It's also a time to visit family, run errands, sleep, relax, watch tv, play games, etc.

2. ...over the next week? Over the next week, I intend to arrange and organize my schedule including working out. I haven't worked out for awhile and the weight I lost previously is now back.

3. ...this year? My goals this year are to lose weight, save money and pay more debts.

4. ...over the next five years? Have a family and travel.

5. ...for the rest of your life? Undecided. Each year, my priority and goals changed. The hubby and I are constantly planning our future for our family.

SEASONS GREETINGS 2004!!!

Neil & Candy with Spenser the Lab